If you wanna hang out sometimes, holler at me…” – unless you are in a fraternity, you should never come across as someone who has nothing else to him but getting drunk and leading a lifestyle devoid of any real goals or ambition.
Now, lets look at an example of a profile that will stand out through both the way they are written and their content.
He has Velcro-like thunder-grey hair and one of those shrewd faces which screams 'LA nerd'.
He looks like an older Mark Zuckerberg – an apt similarity, given that, as with Facebook's inventor, Jeffries is the founder of his subject.
He starts out by suggesting she wouldn’t be attracted to him and then persuades her of the opposite through a series of subtle gestures including, but not exclusive to, ‘condiment anchoring’ – that is the association of a thought or feeling, in this case the fuzziness of fancying someone, with a packet of ketchup. Regardless of where you stand on the ethics of the seduction community (to many it’s considered misogynist), Jeffries exudes a powerful gravitational pull.In other words, Jeffries makes a complete stranger besotted with him using years of study, in-field experience and a packet of ketchup. During his talk on seduction at the Soho House Salon, Jeffries teaches and demonstrates his persuasive powers to a mesmerised audience.But it’s hard to tell whether we’re genuinely impressed or if we’re just being persuaded we are.So, lets look at a few typical examples of bad profiles: “I am not good at writing about myself, but my friends say that I am intelligent, professional, educated and ambitious. I am looking to a meet an intelligent, beautiful woman for dating and relationship.” – at first, this looks like a well-written profile by a guy who seems to have head on his shoulders. There is nothing “catchy” about this profile – there is nothing that would compel a reader to stop and respond to it.However, it has one major flaw that will make many women skip over it. Lets look at another bad profile: “I went to school in the east coast, but now I work for a major software company where I work up the corporate ladder. I love hiking, watching baseball, and bbq on weekends.” – the writer must be reminded that this is a dating profile – not a resume or a sales presentation in front of his human resources department. as a rule, you should never start your profile by talking about school or work, as it’s not interesting and not really relevant to what you should be trying to achieve – to catch a woman’s attention.” “I love to have fun, party, dance, and drink of my buddies.